Many children have the bad problem of losing one's attention. In this case, parents are also very headache. Although it has been said many times, the child cannot change it. Although this bad habit will gradually diminish as the child gets older, many parents can't stand losing things every day. In this regard, one parent thought of a "coup", and the teacher praised it after seeing it.
Xiaoyu is a 5-year-old boy who usually looks very clever and is loved by teachers in kindergarten. However, Xiao Yu's bad faults caused parents a headache. Today he lost a rubber, and tomorrow he lost a pencil. Although it was not too expensive, Xiao Yu's parents felt that if the son's bad habit could not be changed now, he could not change it when he grew up.
One day, after Xiaoyu went to the kindergarten, the teacher found that a rope was added to his bag. Out of curiosity, the teacher said that the rope was pulled out. After seeing something on the other end of the rope, the teacher laughed. It turned out that a rubber was tied to one end of the rope and the other was tied to a schoolbag. Seeing this, the teacher instantly understood the role of this "rope". It was originally to prevent light rain from throwing things around. Moreover, I also feel that Xiaoyu's parents have done a great job and praised them.
In fact, many children have such bad problems. Although they have little effect on children nowadays, when they grow up, if they still do, it will likely cause very serious effects. Therefore, once it is found that the child has the habit of losing oneself, the parents must find a solution as soon as possible to help the child get rid of this bad problem.
So, if the child has a bad habit of "throwing the wrong thing," what should parents do?
Listen to your child's thoughts
When a child loses something, parents should never be impulsive and don't yell at the child. The right thing to do is to sit down, listen to their thoughts, and work with your child to analyze the reasons for the total loss. Only after clarifying the cause, can we better solve the problem and blindly criticize and accuse, not only cannot solve the problem, but also may affect the child's mental health.
· Let the child understand that this is the wrong way
In the eyes of many parents, what children lose is not particularly valuable, so they don't care too much. It is because of this kind of thinking that the habit of letting children get lost is getting worse. Therefore, when children lose something, parents must let them know that this behavior is wrong.
As the saying goes, "You can only remember if you have suffered a loss." This is true for adults and children. When children lose something, parents can punish them appropriately so that they know that they will be punished by doing so, and they may not repeat the crime until the next time. However, punishment must be appropriate and not too severe.
· Train your child's independence
Many children are now "only children". They grew up in the parents' covetousness from childhood, and all parents in life will arrange for them. It is because of this situation that children lack independence and have no sense of autonomous management. Therefore, parents should learn to "let go" education, exercise children's independence, and constantly cultivate their awareness of management of their own things. In this way, it may not only improve the bad faults, but also make the child stronger.
In general, the vast majority of children will have bad habits, and in this case, parents do not need to be too anxious, as long as they help them get rid of bad habits through correct guidance. It is important to note that you should not lose your temper at the child, otherwise it will easily lead the child into self-doubt, and the next time you lose something, it may lead to lying and running away.
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